How to Make Powerful Personality

We all want that other people like us in a positive manner. We try to influence other person and make lasting impression on people around us. For this, you need to do certain changes in your life style and routine. With hard work and passion you can cultivate changes in your personality. Here are some tips to better your life:

1. Try to Look “Good”: At first sight, a person is judged by his physical personality as it is said-First impression is the last impression. Try to look good and you will feel good about yourself. It will increase your confidence level also.

2. Positivity: Don’t have negative thoughts/things/people; instead invest your energy in the positive things, thoughts and people. Develop a positive thinking and positive attitude: Avoid negative attitude towards life, as positive thinking is the key to success in any field of life. Replace positive thinking into positive doing also. Many a times, we think of so many positive things and like to do them, but the fear of failure or difficulties stop us from turning those positive thoughts into reality.

3. Be Confident but don’t be over-confident. Don’t doubt yourself. You should have confidence in your eyes, voice and your face too, which should obviously reflect to others.  Self-confidence: Have a firm faith, determination and confidence in you. If you are sure in your decision, you will put your best efforts to achieve the goals.

4. Work Management: Make a “task to do” list on daily, weekly and monthly basis. Be organized and systematic in every field of life, increasing the efficiency and tackling the difficulties and obstacles by planning and anticipation. The more organized you are, the more focused you will be for your goals of life. Organize your thoughts and emotions.

5. Time Management: Don’t waste your time and energy on gossips. Be organized, clear and goal directed. Proper time management improves your work efficiency and makes you able to reach the success.

-Don’t Waste or Spend Time rather “Invest time”. 

-Maintain a Planner and make a task to do list for every day.

-Make a Priority list of task according to their importance.

-Don’t delay your decisions as it wastes a lot of your time.

-Don’t think of past instead, use today’s time for tomorrow’s planning.

-Don’t Overdo-Keep your limits.

6. Having a Sense of Humor in a plus. Know the right time to laugh. It’s good to crack a few jokes every now and then, but don’t overdo it. Maintain a good sense of humor and learn to laugh at yourself too.

7. Maintain a good Life Style –as it is a key to healthy body and sound mind.

-Don’t be a fast food junkie.

-Have a balanced diet that contains lots of green leafy vegetables & fruits.

-Say “No” to alcohol, smoking or sleeping pills.

-Reduce your intake of tea or coffee as caffeine is very harmful for your body.

8. Be a Good Speaker: Don’t be afraid to talk to others: Always look people in the eye when you are talking to them. It makes you appear more confident. It is very important aspect of good personality.

9. Concentrate on your Goals: Be focused and concentrate on your goals. Avoid all the distractions and put your entire attention to one goal at a time. By doing this you will be able to identify the obstacles and once you identify the obstacles, half of your job is done. Take all the decisions confidently, never depend on anyone for taking the decisions on your behalf.

10. Don’t afraid of obstacles: Obstacles test your capabilities and you should not let them bother you too much. Just think of your past accomplishments. It will give you a sense of confidence. Face these new challenges, do your best under all circumstances and you will feel the great feeling of accomplishment. Face failure with confidence: Analyze your mistakes and learn lesion from them. No one is perfect on this earth.

11. Feel good about your accomplishments and maintain a list of them. Every time you achieve some goal, give yourself a reward. Focus on every problem according to its priority.

12. Be a true friend of yourself: Spend some time in your company. Introspect and try to recognize your weaknesses as well as strong points. Jot them down on a paper and start working on your weaknesses to replace them with your strong qualities.

13. Balance is the key to life: Strike a balance among your personal, professional and social life, for harmony and happiness.

-Don’t bring office work at home, and

-In office, be determined to give your 100%.

14. Sleep for at least 7-8 hours a day, if you don’t sleep for adequate amount of time, your efficiency decreases and it hampers your productivity.

15. Develop a Social circle and try to spend your time with people who have positive attitude towards life. Do Prosocial behavior often. Try to be in touch and contribute to community issues and learn to make social networking and interactions.  

16. Keep your Body Fit: Indulge in some physical activities like brisk walk, swimming, aerobics, yoga and meditation. Don’t be a workaholic. Keep some time for relaxation and recreational activities. It really helps to eliminate stress and anxiety from your life. Practice Yoga & Meditation to improve your concentration and decision making quality. Practice breathing techniques for relaxation.

-Listen to Music.

-Enjoy Nature.

-Take a small break/holiday and go to a nearby hill station and enjoy it.